Monday, April 18, 2011

Rules

The "Rules" of dating are simple.
Be aggressive
Don't be aggressive
Be the chaser
Let them chase you
Ask questions
Don't ask too Many questions
Obsess
Don't obsess
Overanalyze
Don't Overanalyze
Assume
Don't assume
Haahaa yes this cracks me up!!
As new to the "dating" scene
as I am I realize, there really are NO rules
You just have to be yourself and don't question everything
If it "Meant to be" everything else will just fall into place
Life is too short to wait
Seize the moment because you might not get a chance to do what you want or say what you want to say later
Always be honest!! Really if you aren't it will all come out in the wash eventually
Quit looking for "Red" Flags instead Look For "Green" to go...LOL or Yellow to proceed slowly. Or don't look for anything at all...just let it happen, do what you want.Do what feels right...If someone you meet is overanalyzing you then they are probably looking for problems because we all have them. We all have issues with our past, but the past does not have to define our futures. Learning from past experiences is healthy, but it should not define or wash out into our current liasons.
Best dating advice I have given myself lately is really live in the power of the moment, don't hesitate-because you are just pressing pause and who wants to pause in the middle of time..and that is really what it is..we choose to spend the time in our life with someone and let them in and make them a part of that...so why stop and hesitate, plunge right in head first, be yourself and let them see who you really are, without questioning yourself or you intentions, or their intentions...Live happily when you are alone, with family or friends and that inner peace and happiness will wash out into your new relationship!
This is my afternoon babbling rant:)

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