Negativities

Negative energy feels like shit
Pressure in your body
Pressure in your brain
Stay away from EVIL
That contaminates
Happiness
Brings down your soul
Brings down your Brain
Sucks your thoughts
In the direction
Of Frusturations
Can't rely
On Someone
Anyone
Who's only Intentions
In Selfishness Lie
Blood sucking Vampires
Not Blood But Joy
Once they come
Only thoughts will Free
Of positive things
But leave a residue
Being down
Never fun
Stay away from Negative Energies

What about.....

Self aware
Self doubt
Where do you go
When you don't know what you are doing?
What do you say when you don't know
What you want
Live in the moment
The universe implies
But what about the future
What about the past
Do these things matter
Or are they obsolete
Feel the need to defend
The choices that were made
How do you
When they weren't yours
How do you define
Hurt
How do you define Healing
How do you
You just do
Wake up one day and realize
The Past is long behind you
A crumb of thought
One that can be swept away
Still learning
Learning
Learning everyday
And that is what is important
That you are still growing
Making decisions
For yourself
Not for someone else
What you really want
You don't know
Go with the flow
Don't analyze
No self doubt
Erase that
Erase that
Erase that

By: Stephan Bodian

Any relationship between two separate selves is destined to be unfulfilling, because it's based on a lie. I perceive you to be out there, apart from me, and I'm struggling to bridge the imaginary gap and connect with you--or perhaps to withdraw and discon...nect. I want to know what you think, where you come from, where you've been, what you identify with so I can learn how to manipulate and control the relationship--but I never make real, vital contact with who you (and I) really are. In fact, most relationships take place between two false selves, two life histories, two conglomerations of beliefs, identities, biases, and expectations. They're based on negotiation, on getting my needs met, on comparing and contrasting what I have with what I want, and on trying to mitigate the pain of separation by creating brief moments of intimacy. But the basic premise of such relationships is mistaken. We're already one, and true relationship occurs in the recognition and joy of this shared oneness, which is genuine intimacy. When I know myself to be nothing/everything and experience you too as nothing/everything, all apparent separation drops away, and we dance together in the mystery of the One at play in the multiplicity of forms. Love is who we are, we can't possibly find it out there. At the same time, true relationship offers the opportunity to share the love that we are with another person, to resonate together in the love, which allows the experience of the love to deepen and grow. Encountering the other who is also our very own self is one of the most precious experiences available to us as human beings. For many people, this only occurs for a short period of time, at the beginning of a relationship, when they're "in love," then gradually or quickly fades. But it's possible to live in love in every encounter--which just means to live as this timeless moment and share it knowingly with "another." (Of course, for some mysterious reason, each of us is drawn to particular people who seem to quicken this love in us more than others.
I read this today...and loved it...I want to read..re-read and meditate it...
Relationships, whether they are for fun...or two people looking for deeper meaning and companionship tend to do this..The way that I relate to it, and what I am going to take from it, is just be yourself. Treat a romantic relationship like a friendship.No holds barred. That is what it should be inevitably any way, and if you aren't conducting your romantic relationships like this, then you aren't really allowing your true personality to shine through. This for me is hard to do, this is something that I want to work on. If someone is going to know me, they are going to know me for who I really am..All parts.

Full moon tonight

If you look too deep you will miss what is on the surface.

Rules

The "Rules" of dating are simple.
Be aggressive
Don't be aggressive
Be the chaser
Let them chase you
Ask questions
Don't ask too Many questions
Obsess
Don't obsess
Overanalyze
Don't Overanalyze
Assume
Don't assume
Haahaa yes this cracks me up!!
As new to the "dating" scene
as I am I realize, there really are NO rules
You just have to be yourself and don't question everything
If it "Meant to be" everything else will just fall into place
Life is too short to wait
Seize the moment because you might not get a chance to do what you want or say what you want to say later
Always be honest!! Really if you aren't it will all come out in the wash eventually
Quit looking for "Red" Flags instead Look For "Green" to go...LOL or Yellow to proceed slowly. Or don't look for anything at all...just let it happen, do what you want.Do what feels right...If someone you meet is overanalyzing you then they are probably looking for problems because we all have them. We all have issues with our past, but the past does not have to define our futures. Learning from past experiences is healthy, but it should not define or wash out into our current liasons.
Best dating advice I have given myself lately is really live in the power of the moment, don't hesitate-because you are just pressing pause and who wants to pause in the middle of time..and that is really what it is..we choose to spend the time in our life with someone and let them in and make them a part of that...so why stop and hesitate, plunge right in head first, be yourself and let them see who you really are, without questioning yourself or you intentions, or their intentions...Live happily when you are alone, with family or friends and that inner peace and happiness will wash out into your new relationship!
This is my afternoon babbling rant:)

Romantics

Does sadness feed my inspirations
Does it fuel my imagination
Do I crave the troubled souls
To make myself whole
Do I obsess on others and be codependant
Worrying about them and their Restrains
What do I want deep inside
How to achieve and make it thrive
I want a family
Love as true as my own
To cast out the past
Start shiny and New
I want adoration
Without manipulations
Someones heart with out stipulations
To feel the lift in my gut
Of elation and safety and heartfelt devotion
Will I settle for less
Not at this time
I will find what I want
I will take my time
I want love that is slow
Someone who lingers over a thought
Let's make it happen
Let anxiety go
A tender heart that knows what he wants
An open door in the universe
To walk through hand in hand.

Go Ladies!!!

Woman!
We are much more emotionally in tune than men...most of the time
We can handle pain
We have the ability to bear children and nurture them with our bodies
We kick ass in general in life...Get the job done that needs to get done and look good while doing it!
This subject kept coming up today..so I wanted to comment on it.
You go girls..Take over those action films..take over the country.
Take over the world!